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Lesson for you to take away: Look at the environment you’re in and the type of women you are interacting with.

If you find yourself in a strip bar, or talking to some platinum haired blonde with 55 pounds of makeup and collagen enhanced lips at a nightclub, then the cocky Insult lines actually do seem to get a reaction.

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When and where do you use cocky/funny as it’s taught?

What demographic of women do you think it’s best suitable for? Well, the kind of cocky/funny that has traditionally been taught is effective on club skanks and strippers.

It also seemed to piss off quite a few women at the same time.

Over the years, I ran into a lot of guys whose chances with women were being destroyed by cocky/funny as it was being taught.

Another common issues arises from the personality of men who are attempting to be cocky/funny. They are explicitly told that, “The woman shouldn’t be able to tell whether you’re joking or being serious.” They are also taught to use a very serious monotone delivery rivaling Frankenstein with the charisma of a doorknob. Guys who use cocky/funny effectively & consistently have a persona that is CONGRUENT with that type of humor.

A character you can reference for this would be Vince Vaughn’s character, Trent, in the movie “Swingers.” (Actually, you can watch any number of Vince Vaughn movies (Wedding Crashers, The Breakup,) and you’d see the same effect, but let’s stick with Trent from Swingers.) Trent’s persona could be conceived as a cocky/funny type.

These are lines that can easily be misconstrued as an insult, and often, they are perceived as insults.

When that happens, the cocky/funny advocates reply with, “Well, she just doesn’t have a sense of humor.” Then again, maybe she just does not like being insulted. ” “You just want me, like all the other women.” “Nice portrait. ” (Ok, I made that last one up.) Granted, you could approach 10 women, and 2 of them may respond favorably to such an advance. Some of the guys started calling it “Playful & Confident” a few years back and that’s a good motto.

If you are on the Internet seeking dating advice, chances are good that you have come across a concept called cocky/funny.

About 6 years ago, a gentleman started writing countless articles and newsletters promoting the concept of cocky/funny. It was a novel concept that seemed interesting and seemed to get a reaction out of people.

Explaining how to use humor in the interaction requires an entire article on its own. Hence, instead of trying to show you’re cool by the throwing out lines, you’re best served by displaying charm and confidence.

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